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Saturday, July 28, 2007

News Flash: Not Everyone Wants Children


Why is this such a hard concept to grasp? Why are so many people shocked when my girlfriend or I say we never want to have children? I have gotten several confused looks, and many replies which consist of, "you say that now, but you'll change your mind." Really, I'm so glad you, someone I probably don't even like, knows me better than I know myself.

Another common reply we both receive is, "how could you not want a child, they are the most wonderful things in the world." I must admit; cleaning up human shit, being woken up at all hours of the night, staying up late at night wondering where the hell my daughters at, and not being able to travel because I work for an ungrateful child, is something I have always wanted...

Children aren't right for everyone. What difference does it make to anyone if I never have a child? There are to many people in this world as it is... I only wish there were more people who feel the same as me on this issue. On top of everything already stated, by having a child, I run the risk of being yet another horrible parent. I would rather not be responsible for creating a parasite to society.

People need to get it through their thick skulls, not everyone wants a child.

Side rant...
Personally, I wish some of the whores on welfare would have adopted my way of thinking, rather than spreading their legs for any thing with a penis and popping out a kid every year like clock work. Or the asshole men who have ten children with nine different women, while working a job that pays $8 an hour. Mistakes happen... once or twice! Not three or more times. Go to the gynecologist, get birth control, and make the man wear a fucking condom. It may fail once or twice, but you won't wind up with a bundle of children you can't fucking afford. If you can't take care of a child properly, do everything in your power to prevent it, you buffoon.

Actually "buffoon," is a horrible word in this case, since there is nothing humorous about the kind of people mentioned above. Every last one of them should be sterilized.

10 comments:

throwingroses said...

It's always so odd when you see that look of shock, you would get a more respectful look with saying "we fuck vegetables". I see the look so many times myself when people ask my girlfriend and I the same question. One day I will snap at the giver of that look and say "we don't need kids because you have your kid fetish and we don't get off that way".

Jeremy said...

haha, no shit.

It just really annoys me how it is expected that everyone wants to continue their blood line. If parents want their genes passed on that badly they should have several children themselves. Hinge their bets, ya know? You pop out only one kid, you may not get grand kids.

I've never gotten that reaction from my parents, but I imagine the people who give the looks we speak of would react that way to their kids if they told them that.

fieryred said...
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fieryred said...

I have no problem with people having kids, what bugs me is when they have 14 kids, have no money, and complain that they are poor. If you stick with 2 kids you wouldn't have this problem. Also those people who say, "we let God be our birth control". Tell that to your 18 unhappy children.

Ace said...

Thank god there are actually people who know they don't want kids, and aren't planning to have them.

AEC said...

I have to totally laugh at this and I am one of those women who have ALWAYS wanted to be a mom. This post is totally true though. Seriously - some people shouldn't be parents and I'm so grateful for the people that can recognize that!

AEC said...

PS -- my husband and I only plan to have 2 kids. We figure that way we're only replacing ourselves and not adding to the population! LOL!

Anonymous said...

Yes, AEC. LOL.

JJB said...

Every Sperm is Sacred...

Anonymous said...

My husband and I have been married for 12 years and we've never wanted kids. My mom was so supportive but, his mom was dead set on us having kids. I kept telling her we weren't having any but, she kept saying you'll change your minds. That was 6 years ago. :) We still have no kids.